The Arrogant Atheist Forum

good for u but i didnt ask who has what but what would one choose if one had to choose between the two.i have both too.shall we meet? lol

u are mean

If I were to choose.I would choose beauty.because I believed that there is no dumb if you really strive to know.Maybe that dumb people are those who lazy.

hey breezy,i thought we are alike from yr posts but since u say we are quite then opposite u know u better but i wander how u got to know me,am i so obvious and what it is i am in yr view
anyway thanks for the compassion and i understand u pitty me but in that case i pity u too especially for the mind screwing it gives to u.its called decency.
and now to the rest,i believe it was only three of us that time and i dont think its many people taking part here anywahy.i am not counting the stupid theists.i wrote somewhere here that if they came here to ask us for advice on how to get rid of their mind addiction or to explain to them some of the cotradictions in their faith,id be able to stand them,like a teacher stands and endures stupid but nice pupil who wants to learn and does make some progress in getting out of its stupidity and the dark
but the way our stupid visitors come here unnerves me
they think they are over us
it would be cute if only they were not so many and so idiots.like germs.
in short i hate the theists cos i hate stupid people
now to the subjest of this discussion

one said s/he would choose beauty.i dont remember why,and i dont think s/he made it clear
i agree totally with her/him cos appearance matters much more than the incide of the box thou it sounds shallow.it only means we humans are shallow as as animals and that sex and eventually 'love' has everything to do with physique and not mind.mind is for friendship.not even for kin who love each other in spite of being bastards
the other said s/he would choose brains cos beaty can be bought.
well its true that some of the beauty can be bought while mind cannot
but most of us cant buy beauty cos it costs fortunes and furthermore one cant buy height and comlexion of skin and colour of skin and hair.not even the quality of hair.nor the sape of eyes mouth and facial and cranial bones.
so i dont agree with this one.

buts/he has a point in that in relationships and marriage after the totally sexual fase that lasts not more than 2 yrs there comes or comes not the love-friendship fase.this fase is not possible if ones partner is a bastard or a bitch cos we dont love and dont befriend bastard and bitches not even if we ourselves are such
so this leaves us humans on the dry
we need our partners beauty for sex cos we are animals
but we later need also our partners brain virtues for love-friendsahip
these two virtues,beauty and brains are not easily found in one person and when they are then the person has a very hight price.everyone wants them.so we have no chance.so most of us marry ugly brainy people or stupid beauties
i did the latter.lol

hey breeze,yr analysis is rather correct and i agree in almost everything except about beauty and brains.i guess u have made yr choice and so have i.so each of us feels compelled to justify her choice.since i dont know about yrs,ill tell u that my mother emfasized physical beauty and education more than anything else cos we were three daughters to a beautiful mother who married my also beautiful intellectual but womanizing drinking father.so she was disapointed.whe had been extremely poor almost destitute in her childhood so her beauty and education were her only assets cos she never stopped being poor.ans so she kept on telling us about physically beautiful educated girls.i was the least pretty of the three.one was a beauty too.both my sisters were of a nice body.so i had a complex cos i also 'wore' a scar on my chest from cardiac surgery since my 14.as u can see i grew upin a beautiful family where i was the least pretty and they all considerred me the smart,the eldest was the beauty while the youngest was pretty but not beautiful and very tallented.maybe i have my mothers and fathers gene to worship beauty,since i apply it to objests too.i am into colours,have become an expert in color combining.and am not bad in style and shape.whether its my genes or the environment and brain washing into beauty,i dont know,probably both,so i have never had a not very handsome and cute man in my life.and all were kinda bastards.all.including my husband who drank and was extremely well built and athletic.but since my men were bastard and since my father was not a good husband nor father,and since i had the inferiority complex because of my scar on the chest,and since i couldn find a decent but beautiful and brainy man,and since they all mistreated me and used my naivety and openness and sncerity and treated it as my failingin at something probably at not being sly tricky and mysterious...i started having very low opinion on men.the reason was especially my mensbad character and behaviour in treating girls ie me.but i still wanted themhandsome and cute.i couldn nor can now think of having a man in privatemoments if im not crazy in love with him and i culd be that only if he was very handsome and cute.actually since they were dishonest towomen,read me,i had very bad opinion on all men,and so i took what they do have.their cuteface and handsome body.i was actually acting and treating them back like they treat,in my opinion,women,as sexual object.i rememberhowit started and when i analyse these four boys' acting to me,i cant see my blame at all.the first two,one without a kiss and the other after kissing proposed that i sleep with them.the other two were my first and second real boyfriends.both left me cos i wouldn sleepwith them.i was broken hearted both times,and decided men were bastards.so i stopped seeing them as human beings and started using them as beautiful objests.now i know that it all has to do with my father.but i cant understand how my fathers and his bad marriage to my mother made me choose four bad boys.i even now cant see there i made the mistake,especially with the two i had a relationship with.since then on there was a series of my looking for a good handsome boyfriend and finding only handsome but not good.they wer all so called bad boys.i now know that other girls would have seen from their behaviour and treatment of me that they were bad but i didnt.all i saw was they were handsome.ten years pssed in searching untill i found a handsome cute man who was also bad for girls but who was willing to settle down for his own reasons,never mind which.
now i suggest u look in the blog with title 'why women are inferior' and there ull find all these bstard,almost all men,who express there their hatred and despice for women.they say exactly what i expect them to say and what i hate them for.my husband once saw at tv a lady prime minister and commentd 'whats this cunt doing here'.so i hate them for that.but i am not the only woman who has this opinion on men.albert adler is.he worked with froyd and left him for his sexual ides and developed his own idea of inferiority complex in all women because of hundred thousand of mens maltreating and humiliating women in patriarchy.and it goes on.i perfectly fit into his description of neurotic woman because of what i lived in childhood because of my parents bad marriage and especially because of my father who wanted me be his 'son' and cheated on my mom who cried because of that and was faithful to him even after he died.hewas the only man i her life.id say that my parents taught me to hate men,mom did that too,but why albert adler thinks of men regarding women exactly what i think of them,and he is a very good psychologist.and was happily married and a socialist.greeks men are pigs.so they made me hate men even more.and i have a son.and he is the most devoted husband and father i ever saw in my life.its incredible how good a husband and father he is.i am not saying that he adores his wife cos he hides from me his marriage,but his husbandly behaviour is what i wanted me to have had for me whan i was a young woman.i guess that since he had a bad father who was also a bad husband and a drunkard and never at home and vomiting at home,that he identified with me as spouse and become a good spouse to his fife after me cos i was a good wife.in conclussion i had to make a good man in my uterus to meet a good man.aint it sad? and ihope u now understand my choice of beauty in men.its all they have in my opinion.i can see that i am actually their reverse side.i have an extremely low opinion on them,just like they have extremely low opinion on me.my men would say all women are sluts.but i am not and i know that jot all men are bastards.but as a gender they are much more bastards than women are bitches.and they started the war by being bastards.women answered by being bitches.i did not answer this way,instead i hate them more than sluts and bitches do cos they at least revenge themselves by victimising them as much as they can,while i dont.i remained a good woman who hates men.and adler agrees with me.i only dont understand how adler could say all men have this patriarchal way with women,while he himself was not like that.nor is my son.his book womans psychology explains it all perfectly.i suggest all women who hate mens should read the book so that they can see that they are not neurotic withches who hate men cos they are bitches on their own right,but because men made them bitches.adler says men did this to women.and on that blog i suggest u see,men who take part there think that the case is reverse.that they hate women for being bitches to them.but they forget that almost no pregnant forthe first time woman wants a girl but a boy and that no man wants to be a woman and that all around the world a birth of a girls is a misfortune.this proves that men live better on the earth.but we have our maternity.they dont know what they are missing,poor bastards.my on is so good a father to his baby boy of 11 months that the baby thinks his dad has breasts too and searches for them on my sons chest.ive seen it.its incredible.ithink he is talking to his dead bad father this way,telling him 'see,this is a good father,this is what i needed u to have been but u wereout drinking with 'boys' and never were like a rela father to me".please comment if u have the strength,cos i know i opened a bottomless well...and thanks for yr patience in reding my bitterness.